Talk:CoolGuyKai/@comment-123.208.198.130-20191212091650/@comment-2600:1700:4410:4F10:D13:EB20:4823:F6D2-20191221195238

I'm sorry but, no. I'll start respecting Kai's gender when he starts respecting the bodies and minds of underaged girls. The idea that "yeah this person might have groomed 14 year olds, gotten nudes off of them, controlled and maniuplated them, and helped lure them into "his" husbands grasp when he probably knows he's a monster is pretty bad, BUT WHATEVER YOU DO, DON'T MISGENDER KAI WHAT ARE YOU ANIMALS?" is silliness and is really what those two want. They want some sort of control, and Kai being transgender has been used as a power play by Onion boy before against detractors.

Honestly, if the online LGBTQ+ community accepts this monster into their channels just because they identify as trans, then the community is fucked. James and Kai are playing off of your human diginity, OP; don't let them.

I'm not saying 100% that Kai's "faking it." But there is a good chance that his current identity crisis is brought on by James. Something that can happen to biological women in abusive situations is that they become anorexic or overweight. This is because their bodies are the only thing in their situations they can control, and it would be ignorant to ignore that Kai's transition could very well fall into that same vein. It's actually kind of a smart move, tbh; if he became obese or too skinny, James would immediately take issue with it and abuse him more (and portray to his fans that he's just wanting to help Kai), but transitioning gives him social cover against James. If James showed distain for that, the whole world would have slammed him at a force he wouldn't be able to do damage control on.

And these issues are why so many people let Kai off the hook for so many years. And I am included in that too. But just as we don't say "thank you for your service" to James, we shouldn't be giving Kai respect for their gender either. Because they want that control. And as we've seen with all the alleged victims who will be damaged for the rest of their lives because of these two monsters, control is the last thing they need more of.